I’m just going to mention these three rules that Lou [Reed] and I had. . . .
The first one is don’t be afraid of anyone.
Imagine your life if you’re not afraid of anyone.
Two, get a really good BS detector and learn how to use it.
Who’s faking and who is not?
Three, be really tender.
And with those three, you’re all set.
Laurie Anderson, 2015 interview with Terry Gross