This is taken from Rob Brezsny's Astrology Newsletter today. I'm not sure about astrology, but Rob is one of my favorite upbeat, insightful writers.
Ira Byock writes: Anthropologist Margaret Mead was asked
by a student what she considered to be the first sign of civilization
in a culture. The student expected Mead to talk about fishhooks or clay
pots or grinding stones.
But Mead said that the first sign of civilization in an
ancient culture was a femur (thighbone) that had been broken and then healed.
Mead explained that in the animal kingdom, if you break your leg, you
die. You cannot run from danger, get to the river for a drink or hunt for
food. You are meat for prowling beasts. No animal survives a broken leg long
enough for the bone to heal.
"A broken femur that has healed is evidence that
someone has taken time to stay with the one who fell, has bound up the wound, has
carried the person to safety and has tended the person through recovery.
Helping someone else through difficulty is where civilization starts,"
Mead said.
We are at our best when we serve others. Be civilized.
~ Ira Byock, The Best Care Possible: A Physician’s Quest
to Transform Care Through the End of Life
